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In the Birth Room
I love being a jack of all trades because what I learn in one setting ends up benefiting clients in another. I am always excited for a home birth with midwives, but I can advocate during a high risk scenario, too. I’ll rotate you like a rotisserie chicken during your epidural to get your baby out. I’ll teach your partner how to do the very best counter-pressure for your unmedicated birth. I’ll do reiki on your feet, set up your altar, and give your anxious sister a job to do. I can bring my goofball to distract, but I also know how to wade into the rhythm of heavy labor. I’m a chameleon, changing colors to match the energy of the room.
The only thing that is the same across all births is my awe.
Birth Packages
All Birth Packages Include:
Prenatal Support & 1-2 Meetings
- call/text support from signing of contract
- meeting(s) at 32 & 36 weeks
- library of resources from childbirth educator
Continuous Labor Support
- on call 24/7 & back up doula
- hands on support & personalized comfort measures
- birth photography
Postpartum Visit
- lactation & infant feeding support
- birth debrief
- vetted referrals, connection to community
Cost of Services
Container Garden Package
- Unlimited text & calls
- 1 Prenatal visit
- Labor & birth
- 1 Virtual postpartum visit
- Birth photography
good for second+ births
$2000
Full Garden Package
- Unlimited text & calls
- 2 Prenatal visits
- Labor & birth
- 1 Postpartum visit
- Lactation & infant feeding
- Birth photography
most popular
$2200
Full Garden Package + BRM
Same as Full
+ personalized plan based on your unique alignment and the
Body Ready Method
physical prep
$2400
If cost is prohibitive, please reach out. I offer discounts for queer families as well as birth center & home birth clients. If you’re not sure, please ask.
Mel Haley
Birth doula, childbirth educator, placenta encapsulator
Mel Haley
I’m an east coaster at heart (Mass in the Midwest!) who trained to be a doula in Brooklyn in 2019. The only thing I love more than the ocean is my Midwestern partner. I spent several years teaching and leading in an elementary school, and then coaching teachers at Teach For America, before making the switch to birthwork full time in 2022.
In high school I happily gave rides to Planned Parenthood in Boston (abortion is healthcare!). I’ve been passionate about reproductive justice ever since.
Certifications & Degrees
Body Ready Method Certified Pro 2025-2026
Requirements: 6 months of intensive training, including weekly instruction, hands on practice, and quizzes. Passed a final written test and skill demonstration to qualify. Skills include checking pregnancy alignment, moves to help with baby position, and birth specific techniques for more efficient labor.
Birthing From Within Childbirth Educator 2024
Requirements: 140 hours of training in self-paced work, in-person presentations, video submission and feedback, one-on-one and group mentoring, and designing a curriculum and submitting for feedback.
Infant Feeding & Lactation Specialist 2022
Requirements included 12 week training with Tanya Willis and Sarah Lovell at Manhattan Birth, weekly homework, case studies, group work, 2 supervised lactation visits, and a final exam.
Full Spectrum Birthworker 2021
Requirements included Seven week biweekly training (14 sessions) with Ancient Song Doula Service in Brooklyn, NY, Infant CPR, bodyfeeding training and certification, HIPAA certification, social justice book reports, and 5 supervised births.
Childbirth Educator May 2021
Requirements included submitting teaching demos for feedback and writing a full childbirth ed curriculum, plus 12 week training with Cornerstone, by Nickie & Juli Tilsner and community leaders covering anatomy, trauma-informed care, HAES, comfort measures, advocacy & more.
VBAC Doula 2020
Self-paced program through the VBAC Link on supporting trial of labor after cesarean (TOLAC) for those desiring a vaginal birth after cesarean (VBAC).
Chelsea, 2024
“I specifically searched for a doula that was queer-affirming. Mel has a calm and open energy, and I knew I’d be in good hands. They brought so many cool educational tools to our prenatal visits! From a model pelvis and baby to show what’s happening during birth, to showing me how to use all three different types of baby carriers I was gifted, to SO much info about birth… the list goes on.
Cut to… labor! I’m still anxious even thinking about labor, but Mel made it more bearable. The midwives loved working with them, even asking Mel for advice at one point! When someone you find for pregnancy and birth support feels like family, you know you’ve won the jackpot.
Renee,
“We couldn’t have done this without Mel” was the most common refrain in the first weeks following birth. My partner and I were so, so thankful for all the work Mel did supporting us in the run up to birth and throughout the birth. Mel was always generous with their time and afforded us dignity when asking questions big and small. They were an incredible educator and mediator when we met with them to discuss our birth plan. I was so grateful they had such a holistic approach and asked questions beyond the scope of what the birth looks like. Helping us plan for ways to cope with stress and care for ourselves in the weeks following birth was a part of the birth plan that we had neglected. This was our first birth and Mel was really our guide in helping us find books and podcasts to help us prepare and were endlessly patient with our questions.
On the day of the birth, Mel was incredible. One of the reasons we chose Mel was becasue they were recommended by both the Chicago Birth Center and Burr Ridge Birth Center midwives. Mel is an active, hands-on support who worked collaboratively with the midwives to ensure my partner’s well-being as best as was able. Mel had suggestions for helpful repositioning and was able to help us understand how the pregnancy was progressing. Ultimately, we had to transfer from the birthing center to a hospital for non-emergency reasons. We were so, so thankful to have Mel as a consistent part of the team between settings. Having one consistent person throughout the process was invaluable.
If you are looking for a doula, Mel deserves consideration. They were everything we could have hoped for in a doula and they were an incredible resource and support for us.
-Su